The
opening picture is a sunrise. A sunset would
be more appropriate, but it was in the wee hours of the morning that I was
driving from Austin to Houston to help mom close her office. Mom is finally retiring.
Mom has always worked. It does not seem remarkable now, but in the 1960’s, not many women had careers outside of nursing and teaching. My grade school friends had moms that volunteered as “room mothers”, bringing treats and decorations for holidays. Those moms where home when their kids got out of school. Our upbringing was different. Dad traveled extensively (also unusual for parents in those days, but this is about Mom). Daycare was non-existent back then, so Mom hired housekeepers fill in the gaps while she and Dad worked. We were rather feral, but didn’t die.
Mom is a tax accountant. I say is because she kept a couple of clients. Our lives literally revolved around tax season. Brother Joe was born in May. I was born in August. I’ll bet my mom was super pissed to find out Elaine was going to be born in January. I can’t, or don’t ”its tax season” was ingrained in our DNA.
· Mom
was (is) super put together; professionally dressed at all times. I did not inherit this sense of style and dignity. It’s a pandemic and I’m happy
to wear 2-day old “daytime pajamas”
· There
used to be a television show in Houston where people could call in and ask tax
questions. We would sit in front of the
TV for hours hoping to catch a glimpse of our famous mom. I don’t recall the exact setup, but we could
only see her skirt hem and legs occasionally walk by.
· During
tax season, Mom worked late and 6 days a week.
Somehow on Saturdays, she managed to work and get her hair done and get
the grocery shopping done for the week. Those
Saturdays, Dad was in charge. Typing
this I can’t recall a time where he was out of the country on a tax season Saturday,
but surely it must have happened. Gawd
knows what we did if he was gone. When he
was home, there was a fabulous rotation of easy food or take out to keep us fed;
Jack in the box where the clown gave us balloons, Antone’s po-boys - we had to
go with Dad here to make sure we didn’t end up with tuna sandwiches as all the different
ones were color coded and he was color blind.
BBQ of course and cooking at home meant kosher hot dogs.
· Our
house had a formal living room but no formal dining table. Mom set up a desk there. I remember many a night going to sleep to the
sound of that crank style adding machine as she ran tapes late into the
night.
· Kids
winning tax season – when Mom would bring home mainframe computer tape and punch
cards for us to play with. Punch cards
turned into play school flash cards or to attach like playing cards to bike
spokes. I remember using the tape once to
come out of a cardboard robot’s mouth with words written on it.
5 1/4 Floppy Disk Still uses this software today |
Her computer CD drive is broken but this is the OS |
Instructions for mainframe punch operator - hands up if you even know what that means! |
Last load |
Oh wait! One more thing. |
One last moment before the door is locked with the keys inside |
Boxes, bags, chairs oh my! |
The scariest moment of my life. Plugging in that DOS computer and praying it booted up! |
Ok Mom. Rest is up to you |